About Me
Getting Real For Sexual Freedom
Hi, I’m Allen, an IICT Certified Men’s Sexuality Coach currently pursuing my Master’s in Counseling to further my expertise in this work that I have been called to do. My work with men’s sexuality is not just a profession; it’s a deeply personal journey. Growing up in a conservative Christian environment, I developed unhealthy views about sex and struggled with my identity. After losing my mom 21 years ago, I began a path of self-discovery. This journey reshaped my understanding self-acceptance, leading to radical sexual authenticity.
With the support of an incredible coach and a commitment to radical honesty, I learned to challenge harmful stereotypes and embrace my authentic self. My coaching style is direct, open, and grounded in honesty. I create a space where you can speak freely, explore without judgment, and feel truly heard. Some areas of specialty are: monogamous v open v don't ask don't tell relationships, overcoming negative religious views towards sexuality, issues with masturbation, guilt, shame and niche topics such as navigating exhibitionism, voyeurism, and other various topics.
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I share my life with my partner, Todd, and our dog, Ruthie, in the beautiful Hudson Valley, just a quick train ride from New York City. I’m passionate about staying active—whether it’s working out, hiking, surfing, paddleboarding, skateboarding, or anything related to cars. I also love spending time in the kitchen, exploring vegetarian cooking and creating delicious meals. I also enjoy vintage photography, and museums!
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My core values are rooted in gratitude, kindness, empathy, and compassion. I firmly believe that starting each day with a sense of gratitude has the power to transform not just ourselves but also the world around us. I’m grateful that you’re taking this step in your journey, and I’m dedicated to providing you with an exceptional coaching experience that will help you reach your goals.